Yes..akhirnya..kata sepakat sudah di capai..

both of us da setuju this date:

Sunday 10.10.2010 sbagai tarikh akad nikah kami di JB.. :)
sonang crite tarikh tu jugak kitorg akan bersanding..

majlis tandang pulak di KL on Sunday 30.10.2010..2 weeks after sanding.
Mula2 ingat nak buat majlis tandang seminggu after sanding,tapi memandangkan guest yg di jemput lg ramai dr JB coz including my family+friends..so takut x cukup preparation..amik langkah selamat..2 weeks.. :)

Harap2 x de aral melintang la..Insya-Allah..x nak tukar2 tarikh lagi..susah..

Mak Ann: Camne Nurul (Nama panggilan Ann di kalangan family) ?
Ayah Ann: Camne Lun ( or Lulun..Nama panggilan ayah Ann kpd Ann) ?
Ann: Errr...S.P.E.E.C.H.L.E.S.S.....


Hoho..itu adalah 1st word yg keluar dari mulut aku..aku-sgt-terkedu+terkesima+terkejut+segala terrr la..haha

Kenapa?
Hari raya ke-5 Ash 1 family dtg beraya kat umah parents aku di JB..huii..ramai gak aa..family dorang je adala 20++..huhu..dorang g bercuti kat Tioman *ape daa..org sibuk beraya dorg bercuti..rugi x de kampung..huhu* then balik from Tioman, dorang sume tros ke JB.. 4-5 kereta gak la dorg tuh..kitorg 1 family pon bertungkus lumus masak & my dad selaku Chef Besar di umah kami yg masak & mengeluarkan sgala resepi di kpala..kami yg pompuan 3 org tulung tgk & prepare benda2 lain..haha..

Time tggu dorg sampai hati aku da start rase lain macam..berdebar2 pon ada..nak kata 1st time..da byk kali gak dorg dtg..hmm..mmg x sdap ati..tapi aku sedapkan je la..huhu

Sesudah sampai, lpas dorg da makan sume..*time ni kitorg da pnat..coz family kitorg x ramai,skali org dtg ramai..pnat gak aa serve tetamu2 kann..hehe*

Then,tetiba my future M-I-L panggil ke dinner table..aku dr dapur dah rase nerveous laen macam..coz nampak mak, Ash, Abg Zaqi (my future B-I-L yg sulung), Kak Zai (Abg Zaqi's wife) & of coz future M-I-L..Jeng3x

Abg Zaqi (AZ) : Nurul..mak nih haa ada hajat..sebelum gi haji katanya..*tersenyum2 sumbing kat aku*
Ann (N) : Hmm..ape? *x keruan dah,hoho*
Mak Ash (FMIL) : Nih..mak ingat..sebelum mak pegi haji..mak nak la tgk korang kawen dulu..snang hati mak..x de benda dah nak pikir2 lagi..x de benda pending lagi..
N : Huh? *ke-blur-an* Hmm..mak nak pegi haji bile?
FMIL : Tahun ni la..
N: Tahun ni??Da dapat tarikh ke?
FMIL : Blom..tapi dah boleh agak..Insya-Allah la..coz Tabung Haji da panggil kursus Perdana..kira kursus last b4 gi haji la..
N: Oww..so? kahwin?x paham la mak.. *padahal dah dup-dap-dup-dap ni*
AZ: Mak ni haa nak korang nikah dulu b4 mak gi haji..kira permintaan mak la nih..kiranya dlm masa terdekat ni la..then mak balik haji nanti baru buat kendurinya (sanding & tandang).. kire ni NIKAH GANTUNG laa..
N: HUH???? Nikah Gantung??? Bila cadang nak nikah tuh? *Berpeluh2 dah..*
FMIL : Kalau boleh mak nak bulan depan la..nikah bulan dpan.. dlm tgh bulan..
N: Huh??? BULAN DPAN???? Cepatnya!! Mane sempat mak..nape x cakap awal2 mak..at least 3-4 months before ke? Nih cpat sgt..byk benda nak setel nih..*Terasa berpinar skjap*
AZ: Ala..duit ada bukan x de..beli je sume yg ready-made..pilih colour mane korang suka..settle..
Ash : Mane sempat bang..apsal korang x cakap dulu kat aku..ni tetiba je..ish..

Time nih Ash discuss ngan mak dia & AZ..my mum & Kak Zai mencelah2..Aku?? Diam x terkata..aku plak cam x sangka mak Ash nak cakap camtuh..slalu dia cool & sporting gle..nih tetibe laen macam..aku plak x sdap ati..takut jadi pape kat mak..*aishh..simpang 44!*

Di pendekkan crite..

Kak Zai : Camnila mak..Zai rase biarlah dorang berdua ni discuss dulu..dorg pon x tau benda nih..or kita cari date dlm raye discuss properly between 2 pihak..time nih x sesuai..kite pon plan asalnya kan nak braya je umah nurul nih..
FMIL : Emm..okeylah..Balik KL kite plan la camne kan..
Sume setuju..

Ash&Ann tros keluar ke taman di dpan umah..kelakar gle muka Ash time nih..patut aku snap pic dia..haha..aku dah cool jap la time nih..dia..KUSUT GILE!~ Terkejut la katakan..

Malam tuh kitorg x boleh tido ok!hahaha..Camne nih?October dpan nak kena nikah..sume lom ready lagi..kursus kawen pon x gi lagi..mintak2 x jadi..huhu

Esoknya..kitorg calling2 la pikir camne..aku still kat JB..Ash dah sampai kat KL..dia x de mood langsung nak bual2..then tgh risau2+kebuntuan,ptg tuh aku call lagi Ash x dapat..CELCOM buat hal!!!! x silap cam d whole day till besoknya x dapat call dia..

Then Ash call aku & cakap dia kat CAMERON HIGHLAND..
N : WHAT????U kat cameron??bukan baru balik dr tioman-jb-kl-then?cameron?
Ash: Aah..baru sampai..
N: Abg! Org dok risau2 pasal nak kena nikah gantung nih awak sonok plak g jejalan..ish abg nih..
Ash : Mak yg ajak la..mula2 abg x nak gi..x de mood..tapi mak yg paksa gi..agaknya dia tgk abg stress..tros dia cakap nanti2 la pikir..mak cakap je..relax la..x dapat bln dpan x pe la..jom la..sume pon nak ikut nih..
N? Huh?? *Huh lagi..haha* Biar betul.. mak cakap camtuh ke? Aisey..buat cuak la..
Ash : Ye..i pon terkejut..mlm nih u boleh tido la..haha

Boleh x??Sabo je la..Kalo korang kat tempat aku camne? Sekarang perasaan aku:
Geram+bengong jap+termenung+gelihati+nervous+mcm2 la..
hahahaha~

p/s : tetiba terkenang zaman dolu2 masa kecik2..bagi2 kad raya kat kwn2..kwn2 kat skola siap soh balas..jgn lupa..haha..kwn2 yg jauh siap pos2 lagi..pastuh hari2 dlm bulan pose tuh tunggu posmen dtg..hehe..time raya gantung kad2 raya kat umah..besh la..MERIAH ok!~ skang sume e-card,sms..tag2 duit raya kat facebook..haha..x best dah..huhu

http://www.weddingcouture.com.my/

Wedding Couture..yup..FINALLY...we hired them~

both of us agreed to opt chinese photographer/studio for our pre-wed photography & for our actual-big-day,we will opt malay photographer/studio...kira balance la..coz both of us got half chinese blood..1 malaysia la nih kira..haha*motif sgt*

Just wanna share wif u guys *ada ke org nak tau..haha* package yang kitorg signed up..ne tau leh jadikan reference dr segi ape package2 yg di offer for pre wed photograhy nih..i mean chinese studio package vs malay studio package..hehe..

> 18" x 24" Double Arcrylic Album with 30 posses + designs
> 12" x 16" Double Arcrylic Album with 20 posses + full page
> 24" x 36" Frame with design (1pc)
> 8" x 12" Arcrylic Coffee Table Frame with design (1pc)
> 4" x 6" with 8 posses (80pcs) - for special wedding invitation card
> 4" x 6" Invitation Card (20pcs) - for VIP wedding invitation card
> DVD with 2 songs and all posses (1pc)
> Custom Guest Signature Book
> Custom Casing (1pc)
> Softcopies : 50 posses with touch up
For Photoshoot Day (Indoor & Outdoor) :
Wedding Gown (2) Evening Gown (2) Coat (1)

On Our Big-Day:
Wedding Gown (1) Evening Gown (2) Coat (1)
Bridal Hand Bouquet
Corsages
Wedding Car Decoration : Bridal Car + 8-10 Brother's car
Banner 20" x 30"

......ASH&ANN.............

Di pendekkan crite..time tuh both of us x sure lagi nak WC tuh ke x..so kitorg pusing2 lagi kat situ..got other 3 wed company offered us to b their sample..emm..special discount yg di offer pon sume lbey kurang je cam kat WC tadi..

*tibe2 me & him cam terpikir..apsal dorg nih cam pelik2 je..ntah2 sume yg malay customer dtg dorg cakap nak jadikan sample..kite yg tertipu..yela.dorg nak close sale kan...hahaha..*

we still hv about 1 hour ++ to think wheather nak ke x nak amek pre-wed package tuh..coz exhibition tutup @ 7pm. so kitorg x mo tension2 gi makan dulu @ little penang kafe..gi sopping jap kat MNG & Topshop..*sempat..ok..haha* at da same time..kitorg byk diam je..sambil sopping sambil fikir..worth it ke x..

lagi 10 min to close,finally kitorg decided to choose Wedding Couture!~ Pheww..

then kitorg dtg cari Cashyn tu balik..suke gle dia..*ye la,dpt commision kan..huhu*

Masuk2 je entrance Bridal Expo tuh..kitorg tros usha2..actually the day b4..on 11th July masa i went there wif Kimi, i locked appointment oredi wif 1 chinese girl @ STAREAST STUDIO booth..can't remember her name..huhu..she was quite shocked bcoz smlmnya i dtg dgn org lain then dtg again wif org lain..konpius dia..haha..then i kenalkan ash as my fiance..discuss punya discuss kitorg ckp..'hmm we'll think bout this..'something kurang la tp x tau pe dia..&offer package dia pon cam x worth it..emm..

then jln lagi..tiba2 ter'kaku' skejap..*haha..ayat..*@ WEDDING COUTURE booth..drama bermula2..*hahaha..*1 chinese girl dtg to us and entertained us..very cute & she's smile all the way..Cashyn..her name..the way she treats us as client was superb!~communication skills good. their packages also interesting~ boleh kata both of us cam kena gam la..*hahahaha* kitorg belek satu2 some of their photo albums..& kitorg suke gle wif those pix..lain drpd yg lain...i mean not like the typical type & angle of photo..very pro photographer..good job!~ haish..mmg suka laa..chantek2 pix dia~

tgh2 belek2 album tuh aku pon tgk la jugak kiri kanan..ye la,,konon nak eardopping..huhu..saje nak tau ape pendapat other guests yg singgah..ok ke x kan dorg nih...hehe..tetapi..sedih..x de malay couple pon keliling..sume cina..*tiada sifat2 perkauman di sini..harap maklum..hehe*erk..kitorg je ke malay kat booth neh??segan la pulok..tapi memandangkan tgh suke tgk2 pix tuh x jadi dah segan..haahhahha..*dlm hati, if x jadi amek wif them pon x pe la..bkn byr pon tgk gambar..hehe*tgh dok tgk2 pix tuh sambil bual2 wif Cashyn,tibe2...*jeng3x*

another 1 chinese girl dtg kat our table & speak in Mandarin wif Cashyn...she introduced herself as Cat, Manager a.k.a P.I.C (person-in-charge) @ WC..and then she said 'guys..i tgk u dua dari tadi..i just imagine that u are my perfect malay model dat i can find..mesti kasi cantik punye..btol punya..if u interested..u kasi tau..i give u very good..special discount..' & kitorng punye spontaneous reaction : WHAT???? u all definitely salah org maa..we cannot b the model...kitorg x handsome & cantik punya maa..u kasi tgk la both of us again...aiya..

then..i ask them how much they wanna give us if we agreed to be their model/sample for malay cuople..they give us a very good price..hmm..then somehow i react wif speak in mandarin..owh..yiyang de..*translate:ow..sama la* i mean sama la ngan ape yg Cat cakap kat dia tadi..hehe..saje je nak test dia..ne la tau dia bg lagi byk discount...hehe..terkejut dia i can speak mandarin..

Then..balik from the Trade Expo on 11th July..straightly jumpe Ash to inform him bout the Bridal Fair..at that time both of us have tonzzz of works to do..i've also ada deadline to meet..so mlm tuh dua2 dok pulun koje..stay up..sbb nak gi bridal fair tu punye pasal..huhu..

kebetulan..on 12th July gak,kitorg ada plan nak gi Pameran Pengantin @ Kompleks Kraf kat Jln Conlay tuh..*padahal t'lupa dah awal2 lagi ada plan nak gi situ...haha* ..bcoz of time constraint..me n him decide nak pilih either gi MV or Kompleks Kraf..

Pastu we decided to go to MV.*Nasib Ash kata nak gi MV,sbb rasa nak sopping skali...haha*Yeay!~

Camne aku leh 't'amek' *ter amek la sgt...haha* diz package ek?? owh..da ingat..emm..9-11th July 2009..still remember the date..on July 11th me & Mr. Kimi (1 of my kepala2 biz frens)..& also 1 of male model for Karangkraf co..*eh..x psl2 aku promote ko plak Kimi...motif sgt*haha..we went to some 2009 Entrepneurship Trade Expo at Mid Valley Exhibition Centre..then kitorg ter'masuk' 1 hall tuh..i really tought that hall was part of the Entrepneurship Expo..then..eh?apsal byk wedding2 gown neh?owh..rupa2nya that hall link wif the trade expo tuh..

then i saw 1 banner stated...9TH KL WEDDING EXPO 2009 10 - 12th JULY 2009...hehe..suka!!~



ajak Kimi masuk..nak usha & amek brochures..dia plak dengan muka yg segan2..*cuak takot gf nampak agaknya..haha*terpaksa-rela la menemaniku masok..huhu..*sorry dude..*then tengok punya tengok..ish..x bley tahan!!!ni have to tell ash bout this..and we have to go there again!

by hook or by crook!yes!

Me & Ash still thinking of VENUE for our wedding reception..and we have to consider our wedding theme as well..huhu..nak buat GARDEN WEDDING ke...kat UMAH ke...kat HOTEL ke..kat DEWAN ke..kat GOLF CLUB ke*and the list goes on.........*haha..pening2..

garden wedding...rasanya cam x buleh..memandangkan bln 6 onwards..wheather seems to be HUJAN slalu..cancelled!
hotel..limited no. of guest la plak kan..rasa cam x worth it la plak..
so..kena la start survey buat kat umah,dewan & golf club..mane paling berbaloi..huhu..*arghh..headache2*

Emm..1st..dewan..after discussion wif him (lps sahur pagi td @khulafa)..*ye ke discuss together-gether?ash skadar menjawab hmm..hmm..sambil makan & mata terkebil2..still blur2 maybe..di pagi hari..hahahahaha*am thinkin' of SACC..Convec Centre i mean..not the shopping mall..huhu...but then..ada ke hall?haha..the convec seems like small to me..emm..got the number recently..will call them asap la..
then..DEWAN CATTLEYA..from the rumours i heard this place SGT CHANTEK..huhu..so hv to check it out! talkin' about this place..after sahur,otw back to my home..suddenly he's awake! time nih la baru dia dok sebok nak bg opinion..haha..& dan2 tu jugak la dia nak pi usha wisma pkps (tempat dewan cattleya tuh) katne..haha..so pagi2 buta tadi..dlm kol 5 camtuh..gi la pusing2 kat section 14..sudahnya...x jumpe pon!!haha..2 kali pusing tuh..then we gave up!haha..nak sedapkan hati..ash cakap..'sbb gelap kot..thats y x nampak word dia..bluewave pon lightbox dia off..x pe la,nanti kita check lagi'...huhu..then sampai umah jer i google..what???'wisma pkps terletak berhadapan dengan hotel grand blue wave'....what da @#$%$@#...hahahaha.. camna bleh x nampak daaa....nih kena repeat tgk tempat nih..hehe..

Emm..nak start survey la kursus kahwin..dari tahun lepas lagi nak pergi..tapi ash asyik sibuk jer...bile ntah leh pergi...dari thn lpas lagi org dok cakap lagi lambat lagi susah..x tau la tang mana susahya tuh...huhu..ada org cakap dari 2 hari kursus kahwin nanti jadi seminggu..x tau la btol tak..emm..rasanya till now still 2 days only (normally on weekend)..if am not mistaken la..

Course price..murah je kalo x silap..standard course price RM80 je each person..RM160 per couple la..mana2 tempat pon sama..so ann ingat nak list down la dulu few places..then discuss wif him dlm masa t'dekat nih...

criteria tempat kursus kahwin yang di cari..emm..x de la jauh sgt nak gi..maybe kat area2 SA-PJ-DAMANSARA..hehe..owh..yg paling PENTING..tempat tuh SELESA,pengisian dia bagus..dan yg lebih tepat SPEAKER/PENCERAMAH dia BEST..nak penceramah yg have good sense of humor..barula x ngantuk n both of us leh ingat everything ilmu yg di ajar for our new life nanti.. hehe..ye la..if dapat speaker yg type skema all the time..serius je..from start sampai abes..confirm kitorg tidoq..adeh..huhu..haru..

OUR KURSUS KAHWIN PLACE'S SHORT LIST..

1. Pusat Kursus Perkahwinan Pusat Bandar Damansara
http://kursuskahwin.webs.com/
**Dengar crite tempat neh ok..selesa..speaker pon best..hmm..cam best nih..*wink*

2. Pusat Kursus Perkahwinan Taman Tun Dr Ismail (TTDI)
http://www.freewebs.com/perkahwinan/
**Ow..this place share the same organizer with the one at pusat bandar damansara (above)..emm..nice place..i liiikeee!~ :)

3. Jabatan Agama Islam Selangor-Shah Alam
http://www.jais.gov.my/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=686
**Nih kat SUK,Shah Alam..x tau la ok ke tak..so far x de lagi kawan2 yg gi situ..emm..

4. Zura's Akademik, Bangsar
http://www.zurasakademik.com/
**Tempat nih mmg slalu dengar..mmg ramai couples gi situ..some of my friends pon gi situ..ada my friend recommend tempat nih..speker ok..tempat nih ramai org tau n 'glam' sket coz lots of selebrities gi situ..



Antara tempat2 kursus perkahwinan lain di KL/SELANGOR/PUTRAJAYA yg boleh di jadikan reference..

1. Pusat Kursus Perkahwinan di Masjid Negara,KL
http://my.88db.com/my/Services/Post_Detail.page/Weddings/Wedding_Planners/?PostID=181201

2. Kursus Pekahwinan di Bangunan LPPKN,KL (Near to SOGO,Medan Mara,Pertama Complex)
http://mykursus-kahwin.blogspot.com/

3. Kursus Perkahwinan Mahligai Firdaus, Setiawangsa,KL
http://www.kursusperkahwinan.net/blog/

4. Kursus Perkahwinan Nass Kirana Enterprise, Pusat Bandar Melawati,KL
http://nasskirana.blogspot.com/

5. Pusat Kursus Kahwin Precint 16, Putrajaya
http://www.blogcatalog.com/blog/senarai-pusat-kursus-kahwin-di-kuala-lumpur-dan-selangor

D.A.T.E..............

nih part yg paling2 susah...waaa..byk kali tukar date..camne nak book hall nih..waaa..yg penting CONFIRMED 2010!~bulan je x tau lagi..



Nak kena beli calendar 2010 nih cepat2..tapi rasanya msian school holiday x kluar lagi..so have to wait la..after discussion with him yesterday..maybe bln 9..takut x sempat if before bln 9..

bln 8 puasa..bln 9..i think early sept raya..ke bln 7..hmm..**am thinking...& thinkin' lagi...**

Haa..nih penting..mas kahwin..nilai mas kahwin nih kena ikut negeri..stp negeri x sama..mine is RM22.50..murah je..slamat ash kata..sabo je la..hehe..tapi kitorang tgh decide either RM51.20 or RM512.85..hehe..

so..nak tau nilai mas kahwin stp negeri..u guys just check kat link nih..
http://www.islam.gov.my/informasi/nilaimaskahwinnegeri.html
SOURCE : Portal Rasmi JAKIM

selain tuh if u all nak tau info2 lain pasal mas kahwin nih..ann ada jumpa few websites pasal nih..check it out!!~

> mahar/mas kahwin dari perspektif islam :
http://www.islam.gov.my/portal/pdf/Mahar.pdf

> info on hak mendapat mas kahwin & differences between mas kahwin and wang hantaran :
http://intim.wordpress.com/2007/07/17/pertunangan-dan-mas-kahwin/

ow..baru ann tau..mas kahwin tuh wajib and wang hantaran tuh just adat..then why la most of people ltak seminimum mgkin on mas kahwin and ltak ribuan ringgit on wang hantaran?? **camno nih??pening2..**